Crisis sorting
The Triage Chair
A crisis sorting tool for the moment your life needs a chair more than a philosophy.
What this tool does
The Triage Chair sorts pileups by danger, cost, leverage, and noise. It helps your nervous system stop promoting the loudest thing to emergency commander.
Write four words: danger, cost, leverage, noise. Put one task under each. Touch danger first.
Bad-week version
Use it when
- Everything feels urgent.
- You are pacing instead of choosing.
- The phone, calendar, bills, room, and messages have become a pileup.
How to use it
- Sit down. Standing makes everything too theatrical.
- List the pileup.
- Mark danger, cost, leverage, and noise.
- Do one danger or cost item first.
- Then do one leverage item that makes other actions easier.
Worksheet version
Copy these prompts into a notebook, notes app, spreadsheet, or the nearest envelope that is already judging you.
Common traps
- Treating loud as important.
- Making a dramatic gesture instead of a boring next action.
- Trying to solve the entire pileup before drinking water.
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